Can’t believe it’s June already

I’ve spent most of the last week running around trying to keep my and my kids houses from falling down around our ears due to storm damages. A tree fell through the roof at the kids house, so they’ve moved back home this week. The power’s been out and then even once it came back, we had no internet for days and days. It’s been really nuts, so I haven’t managed to finish transcribing from May yet. There’s no telling how many words I got, though I’m going to hazard a guess that I almost matched February’s numbers (around 17,000) because I was really going hard on my short story work. I’ll do an extra update next week about that. (Update: I couldn’t find everything in order to transcribe it all, so I didn’t hit my goal. I was somewhere around 7,000 when I ran out of things to transcribe.)

One of the other writing related things going on behind the scenes is time spent putting together an anthology for the Open Door Writing Group. I can’t remember if I mentioned this before. We’re having members of our group (both online and offline) write short works of non-fiction, fiction, or poetry on the theme of frogs. It started off as a fun little writing prompt, but it really took off. The in person writers were entranced by all of our frog stories and really wanted a wider audience for them. Since I have the most behind-the-scenes knowledge of how to start an anthology, I’ve been doing quite a lot of the legwork for the project. We’ve opened up the possibility of having writers also contribute to putting the anthology together and handling stuff as well. It’s been fun so far. I hope all the hard work pays off. We’re anticipating a mid-November launch date.

In other real life stuff, we had Mother’s Day, which we celebrated early at a sort of local renaissance festival (2 hours away), and then actual mother’s day I just sort of spent hanging out. We finally got our roof replaced from the hail storm in February. Then we had all the graduations and parties to attend and finished up the month with my husband’s favorite annual family BBQ (which we host here at my house).

A totally wild month

This month, I managed 17,967, but 2/3 of it was lessons for the ODWG. I also tried to train a new membership chair for one of my local writing groups.

I wrote one really long poem about teeth. No, really. It started off about teeth and then it got weird. I also wrote a poem about grief that involved Pokemon. You know you want to read that one. (There were several other poems this month as well, but those were my favorites).

I also was the featured speaker of the month for my local writers guild. I spoke on “How to Get Back on Track After Life’s Disasters.”

In real life, I had to figure out how to do my local church’s annual certification because our board president’s life exploded that week. I attended the first of hopefully many delightful meetings of a local yarn group. I loom-knitted one sock and then tried to figure out how to regular knit it’s partner after my sock loom broke. I started a crocheted snowflake blanket.

I also spoke at two other groups, using the “How to Get Back on Track…” lesson as a starting point. Which was only funny because disasters kept making it so I almost didn’t get to speak at either group (first an epic hail storm and then a mass internet outage).

I also read The Thin Man by Dashiell Hammet.

Final book list of 2023

TitleAuthorStartedFinished
The Secrets of the NotebookHaas, EveDec 29, 2022Jan 05, 2023
JinxCabot, MegJan 2023Jan 02, 2023
My Evil MotherAtwood, MargaretJan 05, 2023Jan 05, 2023
Head On (Lock In, #2)Scalzi, JohnJan 05, 2023Jan 08, 2023
A Court of Thorns and Roses (A Court of Thorns and Roses, #1)Maas, Sarah J.Jan 08, 2023Feb 20, 2023
The Weekend Novelist Rewrites the Novel: A Step-by-Step Guide to Perfecting Your WorkRay, Robert J.Jan 08, 2023Jan 12, 2023
Cloud Cuckoo LandDoerr, AnthonyJan 16, 2023Jan 21, 2023
Keeper of Enchanted Rooms (Whimbrel House, #1)Holmberg, Charlie N.Jan 27, 2023Jan 31, 2023
Super Structure: The Key to Unleashing the Power of StoryBell, James ScottJan 28, 2023Mar 06, 2023
The Six: The Lives of the Mitford SistersThompson, LauraFeb 16, 2023Mar 03, 2023
French BraidTyler, AnneFeb 27, 2023Feb 28, 2023
This Is Your Brain on MusicLevitin, Daniel J.Mar 21, 2023Mar 27, 2023
StarborneKatz, AlephMar 25, 2023Apr 14, 2023
A Most Malicious MurderFletcher, MelanieApr 16, 2023Apr 18, 2023
The Man in the High CastleDick, Philip K.Apr 25, 2023Apr 29, 2023
Followed by FrostHolmberg, Charlie N.Apr 30, 2021Jun 29, 2024
Out of My MindArkin, AlanMay 18, 2023Jun 27, 2023
It Wasn’t Always Easy, but I Sure Had FunGrizzard, LewisMay 19, 2023May 27, 2023
FICTION FORMULA PLOTTING PRACTICEChester, DeborahJun 07, 2022Dec 29, 2023
How to Read a PoemEagleton, TerryJun 22, 2023Jun 27, 2023
This Is How You Lose the Time WarEl-Mohtar, AmalJun 27, 2023Jul 2023
What She Left BehindWiseman, Ellen MarieJun 30, 2023Dec 30, 2023
I Thought It Was Just Me: Women Reclaiming Power and Courage in a Culture of ShameBrown, BrenéJul 07, 2023Jul 27, 2023
Renaissance of Wonder : The Fantasy Worlds of JRR Tolkein, C. S. Lewis, George MacDonald, E. Nesbit, and OthersLochhead, MarionJul 20, 2023not set
Rotten to the Core (Lady Hardcastle Mystery, #8)Kinsey, T.E.Jul 2023Jul 05, 2023
A Kiss for Midwinter (Brothers Sinister, #1.5)Milan, CourtneyJul 28, 2023Dec 27, 2023
An Indigenous Peoples’ History of the United States (ReVisioning American History, #3)Dunbar-Ortiz, RoxanneAug 19, 2023Aug 26, 2023
Heir of Uncertain Magic (Whimbrel House, #2)Holmberg, Charlie N.Aug 2023Aug 08, 2023
The Creative Writing Student’s Handbook (Creative Writing Matters Guides, #1)Hartigan, CathieAug 21, 2023Dec 28, 2023
The Kaiju Preservation SocietyScalzi, JohnAug 22, 2022Mar 2023
SparePrince HarryAug 28, 2023Nov 06, 2023
The Kill Fee (Poppy Denby Investigates, #2)Smith, Fiona VeitchAug 30, 2023Dec 30, 2023
The Upanishads (Easwaran’s Classics of Indian Spirituality Book 2)Easwaran, EknathSep 19, 2020not set
The Marriage SpellMorrow, JaynaOct 02, 2023Oct 02, 2023
Understanding Alcoholism as a Brain DiseaseBurlison, LindaOct 10, 2023Dec 29, 2023
Clockwork Boys (Clocktaur War, #1)Kingfisher, T.Oct 20, 2023Dec 28, 2023
Witches of WorthWindrow, JourneyNov 06, 2023Nov 06, 2023
Bullies, Bastards and Bitches: How to Write the Bad Guys of FictionMorrell, Jessica PageDec 20, 2019Dec 23, 2019
Aesop’s FablesAesopDec 28, 2023Dec 29, 2023
What If It’s Us (What If It’s Us, #1)Albertalli, BeckyDec 30, 2023not set
Mr. Popper’s PenguinsAtwater, RichardDec 30, 2023not set
The Sounds of Poetry: A Brief GuidePinsky, RobertDec 30, 2023not set
The Write Structure: The Timeless Storytelling Principles Great Writers Use to Craft Stories Readers LovePractice, The WriteDec 30, 2023not set
The Future is Japanese: Science Fiction Futures and Brand New Fantasies from and about JapanWashington, MasumiDec 30, 2023not set
Welcome Newcomer!Groups, Al-Anon Familynot setDec 29, 2023
The Reluctant Mage (Mage of Boston, #1)Windrow, Journeynot setnot set
A Thief in the NightCharles, K.J.not set

Final Book List of 2022

titleauthordate starteddate read 
Story Genius: How to Use Brain Science to Go Beyond Outlining and Write a Riveting Novel (Before You Waste Three Years Writing 327 Pages That Go Nowhere)Cron, LisaSep 06, 2020Dec 29, 2022
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal FreedomRuiz, MiguelFeb 02, 2021Dec 29, 2022
A Live Coal in the SeaL’Engle, MadeleineDec 30, 2021Jan 03, 2022
The NestSweeney, Cynthia D’AprixJan 03, 2022Jan 06, 2022
Project Management for Parents: Engage the Family, Build Teamwork, Succeed TogetherKinney, HilaryJan 06, 2022Dec 29, 2022
Body Beats to Build On: A Fiction Writer’s ResourceGardner, April WJan 09, 2022Jan 10, 2023
New Spring (The Wheel of Time, #0)Jordan, RobertJan 15, 2022Jan 20, 2022
The Rules of MagicHoffman, AliceJan 16, 2022Jan 23, 2022
The Book of Magic (Practical Magic, #2)Hoffman, AliceJan 23, 2022Jan 24, 2022
A House in CorfuTennant, Emmanot setnot set
A Kudzu Vine of Blood and BoneTuttle, Tristannot setnot set
A Marvellous Light (The Last Binding, #1)Marske, FreyaJan 27, 2022Jan 30, 2022
Modern Etiquette for a Better Life: Master All Social and Business ExchangesGottsman, DianeFeb 07, 2021Dec 29, 2022
Better-Faster Author Success: Quitbooks BundleSyme, BeccaFeb 08, 2022Dec 29, 2022
The Deadly Mystery of the Missing Diamonds (A Dizzy Heights Mystery #1)Kinsey, T.E.Feb 11, 2022Jan 10, 2023
A Little Taste of Murder (A Brightwater Bay Cozy Mystery, #1)Dean, Carolyn L.Feb 11, 2022Feb 25, 2022
Dear Writer, You Need to Quit (QuitBooks for Writers, #1)Syme, BeccaFeb 04, 2022Feb 08, 2022
Dear Writer, You’re Doing It Wrong (QuitBooks for Writers, #3)Syme, Beccanot setnot set
Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely FineHoneyman, GailFeb 18, 2022Feb 20, 2022
Wordslut: A Feminist Guide to Taking Back the English LanguageMontell, AmandaFeb 23, 2022Feb 28, 2022
Elements of Fiction Writing: Characters & ViewpointCard, Orson Scottnot setnot set
Blue LaceRushmore, Susannot setnot set
Blue RibbonRushmore, SusanMar 03, 2022Mar 05, 2022
Blue TiesRushmore, SusanMar 03, 2022Mar 05, 2022
The Lonely PolygamistUdall, BradyMar 11, 2022Mar 13, 2022
The Yellow HouseBroom, Sarah M.Apr 03, 2022Apr 26, 2022
Later we called it The Molassacre: An official excerpt from the journal of Beskany Trifulnaré, Vargen Traveller.Zatezalo, RhondaApr 14, 2022Dec 29, 2022
The Jazz Files (Poppy Denby Investigates, #1)Smith, Fiona Veitchnot setApr 27, 2022
The Order of Us: Expectations, Restoration, and the Beauty of ChaosChesser, CasandraApr 19, 2022Apr 25, 2022
Boy Moms: Collective Tales of Mothers and SonsForney, KaraApr 20, 2022Dec 29, 2022
Next Chapters UnleashedSeese, Sara-MegApr 25, 2022not set
Business and Accounting for Authors: How to treat your writing as a business, manage your money, and use your accounting data to make better decisions.Moon, ToraApr 27, 2022Jun 29, 2022
Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for YourselfBeattie, Melodynot setnot set
The fantasy fiction formulaChester, DeborahJun 07, 2022Dec 29, 2022
The Underground RailroadWhitehead, ColsonJun 09, 2022Jun 11, 2022
The Birthday of the World and Other Stories (Hainish Cycle, #9)Le Guin, Ursula K.Jun 16, 2022Oct 29, 2022
Dear Writer, Are You In Burnout? (QuitBooks for Writers, #2)Syme, Beccanot setnot set
Fool Moon (The Dresden Files, #2)Butcher, JimJul 05, 2021Dec 29, 2022
Home Work: A Memoir of My Hollywood YearsAndrews Edwards, Julienot setnot set
How Chance and Stupidity Have Changed History: The Hinge FactorDurschmied, ErikAug 12, 2022Aug 14, 2022
How to Keep House While Drowning: 31 Days of Compassionate HelpDavis, K.C.not setnot set
I Choose DarknessLawson, Jennynot setnot set
The Box in the Woods (Truly Devious, #4)Johnson, MaureenAug 17, 2022Aug 19, 2022
Interior ChinatownYu, CharlesAug 24, 2022Oct 29, 2022
My Evil Mother: A Short StoryAtwood, Margaretnot setnot set
Open HouseBerg, Elizabethnot setnot set
Tardy Bells and Witches’ Spells (Womby’s School for Wayward Witches #1)Dorie, Sarinanot setnot set
The Codependency Recovery Plan: A 5-Step Guide to Understand, Accept, and Break Free from the Codependent CycleMazzola, Krystalnot setnot set
The Conflict Thesaurus: A Writer’s Guide to Obstacles, Adversaries, and Inner Struggles Volume 1Ackerman, Angelanot setnot set
The History of Us: The Stories of the Women Who Made UsWrite, Moms WhoAug 30, 2022Oct 13, 2022
The House Witch: Your Complete Guide to Creating a Magical Space with Rituals and Spells for Hearth and HomeMurphy-Hiscock, Arinnot setnot set
The Vision BeyondWeiss, MarkOct 13, 2022Oct 29, 2022
Oh, To Be HumanVarus, LiianOct 24, 2022Oct 29, 2022
The Immortal Life of Henrietta LacksSkloot, RebeccaNov 10, 2020Dec 29, 2022
The Midnight LibraryHaig, Mattnot setnot set
The Twelve Days of Dash & Lily (Dash & Lily, #2)Cohn, Rachelnot setnot set
This Mom’s Guide for Anti-Inflammatory Beginners: Improve Family and Kids’ Health by Going Gluten-Free, Dairy-Free, and Allergen-Free in Real LifeMcCullough, Elizabethnot setnot set
When We Believed in MermaidsO’Neal, Barbaranot setnot set
Why Do We Say That? 101 Idioms, Phrases, Sayings & Facts! A Brief History On Where They Come From!Matthews, Scottnot setnot set
Mind the Gap, Dash & Lily (Dash & Lily, #3)Cohn, RachelDec 08, 2022Dec 09, 2022
Miniatures: The Very Short Fiction of John ScalziScalzi, JohnDec 24, 2022Dec 31, 2022

Boy Mom anthology news

Last year was a kind of a banner year for me because I finally took charge of my very large folder full of unpublished writing and started submitting my work various places. I’d never done it before and it was hard and scary to get over just the fear factor of it all. The banner part came because publishers started accepting my works.

This morning I head back from the Boy Mom anthology people, who accepted my memoir-style essay about raising my boys sometime last fall. They revealed the cover and told us that it will be going out for sale in time for Mother’s Day!

I’ll let y’all know when I know more, of course. But for now, rejoicing! 🙂

Here’s the silly mock-up I made for myself one day. The photo really encompasses the essay I wrote for the anthology.

The Overachiever of Illness

“The Overachiever of Illness.” That’s what the ER doctor called me two weeks ago when I went in, unable to breathe. Turns out that not only did I have Covid, but also bronchitis and Flu B. I’ve been mostly in bed ever since.

Am I really sick?! Yeah. I’m sick.

Fortunately, I have long been a person who forgets to pack pajamas on trips, so I have a full drawer of them. I have a solid week’s worth at this point, from lightweight beach themed summer wear to heavy duty pink snowflakes, and everything in between. I can change into new pajamas every day! It’s been great. (A kids friend said she aspires to that lifestyle and I laughed too hard.)

Boring!

I’m not going regale you with all my temps and oxygen levels and liquid intake and literally nineteen new medicines (the real literal, not the fake one) and all that because it is so very boring, even to me. Just know that I’ve been checking levels every hour or so for two and a half weeks now.

So to keep myself entertained in between taking down data for nurses, I’ve been in bed reading and watching movies and catching up on Netflix series. Here’s what I’ve been up to….

View from my window. Sitting up helps me breathe, but all I want to do is lie down.

Books:

First I finished “Project Management for Parents: Engage the Family, Build Teamwork, Succeed Together,” which I really need to post a review of. It was a good book for the left brained parent, or maybe for the right brained parent who wishes they were more left brained? That might be a better descriptor. In any case, a good book if you like parenting books.

I finished all the Practical Magic books, which were lovely, as expected. A bit more repetitive than I’d hoped, but that’s what I get for reading them back to back to back. It was good to see the whole story from beginning to end like that and really take in the whole of the way the curse changed the family as time went on and how each generation dealt with it in unexpected ways.

Then I read a new book by Freya Marske called “A Marvellous Light” that I loved so much that I immediately tried to buy the sequel to, only to be told that it was pre-order only until November and I’m dying over it. I really need the next one because this gentle Victorianish man romance/mystery/magical thing is my jam, apparently. Who knew? Steph. She always knows what I need to read.

So now what I’m reading is “Dear Writer, You Need to Quit,” a title which cracks me up. One of my writing groups suggested it as something I needed because I’m always needing to quit things and sometimes I don’t choose the best things to quit.

Sometimes I put the kindle down and stare at the fake fireplace. Greg can hear it through the wall and yells at me to keep it down. Hahaha.

Movies:

“Unicorn Store” was the first one I started. It took me forever because I couldn’t watch more than 10 minutes before I was overwrought. I don’t know why. It was just too cute and embarrassing, but I couldn’t not watch it, either, so I watched it in 10 minute spurts.

One day the kids were horrified to realize that I had never watched “Ponyo” all the way through, not even once, given that they had each watched it approximately 95,000 throughout their childhoods. So we watched that. It was really good and now I know what Ree’s t-shirt means. Ponyo Loves Ham!

Like everyone else on the planet, I couldn’t get “We Don’t Talk About Bruno, No, No” out of my head, so I watched “Encanto” multiple times until I could sing all the songs. When I feel better I will learn the dances and then my children will be really embarrassed. It will be great!

I thought I’d seen “Cloud Atlas” before, but apparently only the same few sections a couple times, so I watched it all the way through and it was more violent than I’d expected, but I liked it and I’m still thinking about it in that way that you do with weird movies like this.

Netflix Series:

I’d started watching “Locke & Key” with Greg when Season One came along and we both loved it. By the time we got to Season Two, Greg thought it had gone off kilter and “too relationshippy” and he didn’t want to watch any more, so I finished this off while he was at school.

Greg and I also would watch “Good Witch” together, which we’ve been watching since practically before he was born at this point (TV movies first, of course, then the show). He stopped watching at the beginning of this season because he hated the new intro and wanted Grace and Nick back in the story. So I’ve watched this last season alone and I don’t know if it’s the missing Grace and Nick, the missing Greg, or the missing soul of the show, but this season was just not what I wanted. Taking the emphasis off of helping others and putting it all into minding their own magic threw me off and I was just glad that it ended, I guess, because it was breaking my heart going on the way it was going.

Here’s something more cheerful. The Other Lisa H brought me tiny art and potions for healing and eggs from her own chicken ladies.

So then I got on the bandwagon and started watching “The Woman in the House Across the Street from the Girl in the Window” because a) Kristen Bell and b) the title is hilarious. But the show? Not so hilarious. Slow. Suddenly sexy. Slow. Slow. Huh? Slow. Slow. Oh wait, what??? Slow. Suddenly sexy. Confusing. Suddenly violent. Is it over yet? Maybe? I hope so. But wait, maybe not. I don’t know, y’all. I watched it all day long and now that it’s over, I just wish I’d used my time better that day.

After that we had snow days and the kids and spouse were home to entertain me, so I stopped doing anything that wasn’t staring at their faces, unless it was staring at the Olympics. Figure Skating is my favorite. I could watch that for hours.

In any case, I hope you never, ever become the “Overachiever of Illness” because it’s terrible. But I hope if you do, you have friends to help you along and access to all the books, movies, and series your heart desires. 🙂

Some more goodies from friends. They really helped when both my spouse and I were sick at the same time. (Nick naturally got better in two days. I’m still sick. *sigh*)

Spiritual Practices: Liturgical Library

This week for our Spiritual Practices class, we were encouraged to make a library of spiritual or sacred texts. I wandered the house for hours, picking up books here and there, and piling them all up next to my bed. Nick and I had a long conversation about what we each thought should go in a spiritual library. His definition leaned towards Christianity, naturally, while mine was wider reaching and included not just spiritual practice manuals, but also covering mythology, fairy tales, and books that weren’t necessarily about religion, but changed my views on it. Then I realized that my library also includes things on my kindle and on my hard drive that I do not have physical versions of, so I made myself a little collage of all those books to put alongside my “new” spiritual library. It was an interesting thought experiment, over all. Now I just have to figure out where to put all these books now that I’ve gathered them and people refilled their spots with other books.

What books do you consider Must Haves in your spiritual library aresenal? Please leave me some comments below. I am always looking for more books.

Book Binding Weekend

One of my best friends and I made books this weekend. She took a four-day workshop on it and graciously offered to have me down for the weekend and teach me her new skills. I forgot to take a picture of the book press, which is large, red, and dusty from having sat in someone’s workshop area for years.

Things I learned:

1. Glue is the foundation of all books. That and more glue. With some glue here and glue there. Also some paper.

Photo of a workspace that includes a teal cutting mat which has cut paper and a rectangle of cardstock on top, a wooden 12-inch ruler, a black Sharpie marker, an awl, a white plastic storage container, a box containing a brayer, a bottle of fancy white glue, a yogurt cup containing glue and a a foam paintbrush covered in glue at the tip, a blue bowl with a wet, blue paper towel wadded up inside of it, a pair of green-handled scissors, a red stool, another work area across the table from the main work area (but without the teal mat), and front-and-center a hand which is coated in glue holding a cardstock spine that is also coated in glue. So much glue.

2. I cannot cut the cardstock. Not at all. My friend ended up cutting it all. BUT she has a Cricut and we’re going to cut down some of her huge cardstock sheets to run them through the machine later. I folded all the paper in half, though.

3. Stabbing little holes in paper is fun! So much fun!

4. Sometimes you forget how many holes to make, so you have to improvise. We accidentally put in 5, but you need an even number in this style of book binding, so we put in another one at the bottom. We used variegated thread for our inner binding, which made it super festive.

5. Beeswax smells just like when you smush your face really deep into your cat and then try to breathe, but without all the fur up your nose.

6. There is no 6. 7. Waxing thread is also addictive. I don’t know why.

8. Sometimes you have the wrong sized paper for your interior. So then you need to cut it, but it is hard to do without the guillotine. You may try many things, like sanding the paper, cutting it with box cutters, or even using the dremel wood cutters. They will not work. They will also make the house smell weirdly burnt. Then you will go out to Wal-Mart really late at night and buy a guillotine. They are CHEAP. Start with that last step.

10. Bookbinding has a lot of waiting time while the press does its work. We watched irreverent feminist comedy specials on Netflix while we waited. You can watch whatever you want. 🙂

11. When putting the endpapers in, use the tiniest line of glue. We thought we had. We were wrong. Also, don’t use thin paper for the endpaper. Mine was a little too translucent. Steph’s was fine (a nice sage green, not pictured.)

12. Make a feature of a little error. My error was cutting the paper too close to a little signature spot on the paper. I ended up putting it on the front, where it looks like a cute little frill. We also learned that if you don’t like one side of your book, flip it the other way and make the back the front (my blue was crooked on one side. This side is much better.)

We had such a fun time making these little darlings! 🙂 12/10 would do it again.

Last of the books 2012

Digging through the pile beside my bedside table, I’ve found five last books for the list:
49. Seventh Son by Orson Scott Card
50. Serving as Senders by Neal Predo
51. Hugo by Brian Selznick
52. The Tether End by Marjery Allingham
53. The Harp of the Grey Rose by Charles de Lint

So there you go. 🙂